How to Spy on Your Cheating Spouse

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We’ve all heard stories about someone being unfaithful in their relationship. Little did I know that it would also happen to me. I remember when I heard about their stories, I empathized with them. I did not think that I would also be in the same boat in the future. 

Suspecting that my wife was cheating was not a good feeling. I dealt with plenty of emotions, from anger to anxiety, and more. What it made me realize, though, is that cheating is a real experience that can pretty much happen to anyone. 

One I first suspected that my wife might have been cheating; my first reaction was to want to confront her directly. I remember speaking with a friend of mine, and he told me not to act rashly.  Since I didn’t have proof, I listened to what he said. Instead, I ended up researching different ways to spy on my wife to get the evidence I need. 

I used various methods that I found on the internet. I also asked some of my friends who had gone through a similar experience for help.  After many months of trying to catch my wife in the act, I finally found one that worked. This method helped me to gather enough evidence to catch my wife red-handed. 

If you’re in the same boat as me, the information below will help you get started in everything you need to know to catch your cheating spouse. I’ve detailed various methods that you can use and pointed out the best method and application that I used. 

How to Spy on a Cheating Wife? 

There are many different ways to spy on a cheating wife, but some are definitely better than others. Below are some methods that have been tried and tested, either by myself or some of my friends. 

Through Apple’s My Phone Location 

Spying on your wife doesn’t have to be a complicated process if they’ve got an Apple phone that’s connected to a family account. If your wife’s iPhone is synced to the iCloud, this is a pretty effective way to track your partner’s phone and have an idea of their current location. All you need to do is log into iCloud and click on “Find my iPhone.”

You don’t need to wait for your partner to leave their phone lying around, and it’s a pretty foolproof way. I didn’t use this way because my wife’s iPhone isn’t synced to the family account, but otherwise, I heard that it’s a pretty great way to figure out your wife’s location. 

Use a Spy Camera 

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I know of individuals that have caught their cheating wife through a spy cam. A spy camera is basically a still or video camera that’s used to record people without their knowledge. All you have to do is place the camera in a hidden place, and wait to see if you’ll be able to catch your wife in the act. 

This particular method didn’t quite work for me because my wife wasn’t cheating in our house. It wouldn’t have made sense for me to place a spy camera at home. 

Check Their Phone 

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If you have access to your wife’s password, then you can just take a look at their phone. You can then look through and see if you’re able to find anything suspicious. If all of the messages seem to have been deleted or erased, take a look at their email or even their social media applications to have a better idea of what they’re sending. 

This particular method also didn’t work for me because I didn’t have access to my wife’s password. If I were to ask her for it, she would be suspicious, and it’s most likely that we would have just gotten into a huge argument. 

While the methods are great, they didn’t quite work for me. Keep on reading to find out the way that I used to catch my wife red-handed finally. 

How to Spy on a Cheating Husband 

Before revealing the method that worked for me, however, just as there are cheating wives, there are also cheating husbands. If you’re a wife that’s been wanting to spy on your spouse for a while, here are some ways that I know of that have worked for some of my friends. 

Check Their Browser History 

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A friend of mine was able to spy on her husband through his browser history. They shared their passwords, but his phone had no strange messages or weird social media applications downloaded. 

To catch him in the act, she went to Google auto-fill, and that’s when she saw that he was looking up websites like AdultFriendFinder and Ashley Madison. 

While this may be a great method, there’s quite a number of steps to check your husband’s browser history. On top of that, you’d need to have access to his phone, which is not something you’ll always have. 

Download a Recording Application 

One way that seemed to work for a lot of people is to download a recording application that’ll help catch your partner in the act. When you’re not around, how it works is to download a recording application and have it running in the background.

If your spouse ends having suggestive phone calls, the recording application will be able to pick up all of it. 

While this could also work, there’s a high chance that you’re not going to be able to pick up anything. You’re also going to have to sift through hours of data that’s not incredibly time-consuming. 

Download a Spy Application

Spying software is the winning method. My friend Mary caught her cheating husband by downloading a phone spy application to catch the cheater. She had tried all of the methods mentioned above, and nothing worked for her. 

In the end, she decided that she was going to go all out, and it worked. By downloading a spy application, she could access all of his data and information and find out everything she needed to catch her husband red-handed. 

When she recommended that I download the application to spy on my partner’s phone, it seemed like a crazy method. However, I ended up doing precisely that, and it worked great for me. Like her, I was able to get all the information I needed, and it finally put my suspicions to rest. 

How to Spy on Your Spouse’s Phone 

Now that you know that downloading a spy application is the best way to spy on your cheating spouse and catch them. The next question may be, “what are the spy devices for cheating spouses, and how do I get started?”. 

I had the same question as you when I was starting, and lucky for you, I’ve done my research. Below are all the applications I’ve taken a look at, and out of all of them, mSpy is the best application to spy on your spouse. It’s truly the best application out there and was what I used to get all the evidence I need. 


When I was researching on spy applications, mSpy came up plenty of times. It’s one of the most popular and well-known spy applications out there, and it’s hard not to see why. My experience with mSpy was excellent from start to finish. It was inexpensive, easy to install, and had all the features that one could need.

I was able to install the application remotely and monitor my wife’s information without her knowing. mSpy’s user-interface is really straightforward, and I could see the text messages my wife was sending.

I could also see the location, browsing history, and even data from social media applications such as Instagram and Facebook. It even showed information from messaging apps such as WhatsApp and Telegram, and recover everything that’s been deleted. 

I had a couple of questions when I was using the application, and the 24/7 customer support made it really easy for me to get reliable assistance at any time. I even received detailed reports, which meant I didn’t have to look through all of the information in my control panel. 

Honestly, I really can’t recommend mSpy enough as it really helped get the information I needed to confront my wife about her cheating behavior. 


When I was looking up spy applications, I also stumbled upon MobileSpy – another software that allows you to spy on someone’s phone. It also has a range of features, from monitoring call logs to social media and more. 

What put me off from installing MobileSpy is that the installation process takes about 15 to 20 minutes. By comparison, installing mSpy’s application only took me 5 minutes. 


Another popular application is SpyBubble. It has numerous spying features from viewing instant messenger information to GPS location and more. However, compared to mSpy, it didn’t have that many features. Since I was trying to gather as much information as possible, I didn’t feel like SpyBubble would be comprehensive enough. 

At the same time, SpyBubble markets itself as spyware. The term spyware doesn’t exactly come with positive associations, and I wouldn’t want to use spyware for catching a cheating spouse. On the contrary, mSpy clearly stated that data protection is essential, and there’s no malware involved with the installation. Hence, I went with mSpy in the end as GDPR guidelines, and personal data protection is important to me. 

Highster Mobile 

Highster Mobile is another application that can be used remotely, so my wife wouldn’t know that I was tracking her device. It comes with numerous features and can be used with multiple devices such as Androids, iPhones, and Blackberries. 

What I didn’t like, though, is that the phone needs to be jailbreak before the application can be used. Customer service is incredibly important to me.  I prefer to be able to speak with someone on the phone if I run into any issues. 

With Highster Mobile, they only offer live chat, and if I wanted to have phone support, it’s not free. In fact, I would need to pay $29.99 for just 30-minutes of installation assistance, which is extremely inconvenient. 


Finally, I also took a look at the HoverWatch spy application. It can be used with both smartphones and tablets and offers up a number of features such as being able to track text messages, photos, calls, and more. 

When I’m making my decisions, I’m very dependent on reviews. HoverWatch didn’t come with a lot of positive reviews. Many individuals were saying that the application can stop working at times for no specific reason, and all the information can thus be recorded can end up being outdated. 

On top of that, the application is also only compatible with Android devices, and since my wife had an iPhone, this application just wouldn’t work for me.

Final Thoughts

Based on everything that I’ve detailed above, the best way to spy on your spouse is by downloading a spy application. While you can try some of the other ways that my friends and I have researched, they aren’t foolproof. You’d need to make sure that you catch your spouse at the right time and place and access the required information. 

In my personal experience, the mSpy application really worked for me. Hence, I highly recommend it as the best way to spy on your spouse. With easy installation, comprehensive features, great customer service, and low price, it can’t get better than that. Also, there’s nothing like being able to get all the evidence needed to catch your spouse cheating.

About the Author

Rodney Davis

I’m Rodney Davis, a blogger who dives into the intricacies of modern relationships, cheating, and the effects of social media and apps on our love lives. Through my insightful articles, I explore the complexities of digital romance, offering practical advice and thought-provoking perspectives to help you navigate today’s interconnected world.

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